Sunday, November 11, 2012

Love By Numbers

2  Naps a day
8 Teeth, and counting
7 Baths a week
1 Left Thumb he sucks a lot
3 Meals a day
12 Months size of clothes
About 100 Kisses mama gives baby every day
3-5 Kisses baby gives mama every day
1 red stroller we go everywhere in

Infinity times infinity is how much we love him.






Sunday, October 21, 2012

Better Than Ice Cream

Chicken, rice, and kale.  Also better than ice cream.
Your love is better than ice cream
better than anything else that I've tried
and your love is better than ice cream
Everyone here knows how to fight

And it's a long way down

it's a long way down
it's a long way down to the place where we started from
 

Your love is better than chocolate
better than anything else that I've tried
Oh love is better than chocolate
everyone here knows how to cry
 

It's a long way down
it's a long way down
it's a long way down to the place
where we started from...


"Ice Cream" by Sarah Mclachlan

I was thinking of this song yesterday when Windham fell asleep for this afternoon nap nestled next to me.  Our naps are one of the most precious experiences we share.  Having that special time together is more valuable to me than anything I could possibly accomplish during that time.
On another note, Windham is walking!  Mario totally called it:  Ten months.  He's a pro now and walks most of the time.  It's great.  Less messy, and I feel like he enjoys the freedom.  He's also eating 3 meals a day and doing really well learning how to drink from a cup.  And he has 8 teeth: the front 4 on the top and matching ones on the bottom.  Speaking of teeth, we're still working on the teeth brushing thing.  For some reason he doesn't like it when I shove a plastic thing in his mouth.  He clamps is teeth shut and won't let the toothbrush past.  I'm hoping his frequent chewing on the toothbrush brushes them enough...  We already cut his hair and clip his nails while he's asleep... I don't see how I could add tooth brushing to the list, too.
Mario and I love watching Windham walk around, although it's made church more difficult.  But it's a wonderful thing.  It's very fulfilling for me to see him learn a new skill from getting off the bed to using a spoon to trying a new food.  It's a seemingly never-ending stream of exciting firsts, and every day is an opportunity to explore, cultivate good habits, and strengthen our family bond.

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Dad and Aunt Carrie's Visit

In September, my Dad and Aunt Carrie came to stay and play with us for a week.  We had an ambitous list of activities but also took time to relax.  With a ratio of 4 adults to 1 adorable baby, Windham got lots of love and attention.

First, we visited the breathtakingly beautiful San Francisco Botanical Garden in Golden Gate Park.  We leisurely strolled through all the exhibits.  My favorites were the Prehistoric Plants, Meso American Cloud Forest, and African and New Zealand exhibits.  We must have seen every kind of Rhododendron that have cultivated/genetically modified.  Afterward we had amazing and authentic Greek food just outside the park.  I doused my giant gyro with lemon juice and hot sauce in honor of Leah and Jessi who would've done the same if they had been with us.

The next day we toured the famed Winchester Mystery House- a bizarre mansion built by a paranoid widow and heiress to the Winchester Rifle fortune.  She continuously added onto and improved her mansion until her death in an attempt to keep the spirits slain at the hands of her husband's
Hanging out at Santana Row
rifles at bay. 

Featuring 47 fireplaces, 10,000 Tiffany windows, two then state-of-the-art kitchens, a plant watering room that spanned 2 floors so the runoff from the top could be funneled below, a room with gold-leaf wallpaper, staircases and doors that dead-end into walls, windows on the floor, and upside down pillars, it was both gorgeous and frustrating.  Hallway after hallway of narrow, winding stairs prevented us from bringing the stroller so Mario, Dad, Carrie, and I took turns carrying wiggly Windham through the house.  Several rice cakes and lots of cheerios later, we made it through the entire hour-long tour!  The crystal ball picture above is fromthe gift shop since photos aren't allowed inside the mansion.

A beach trip was also most definitely in order.  Since low tide was late that day, we skipped the tide pool experience and went to Montara State Beach.  Dad made his special Blood Type A bread to snack on.  He and Windham are both Type A.  The bread was a hit, and not just with Windham.  It was unanimously delicious.  Here Windham is sharing his piece with Grandfather Jerry.  After a chilly day at the beach we had a late lunch at Sam's Chowder House.  The key lime pie absolutely hit the spot.

 At Henry Cowell State Park we loitered around the train station and high-society resort town of a bygone era which has since been re-purposed into a modern-day tourist trap.  But the highlight was the redwoods.  The smell of the trees and fresh air, the cool shade, and peaceful silence made the experience perfectly serene. Windham was supremely content to enjoy the view from his stroller and play in the dirt as his parents permitted.  He found a piece of redwood bark on the forest floor that he found simply irresistible.  He alternated between chewing on it and crawling around with it in his hand.  It's now sitting on the shelf in his bedroom.  Our only excitement that day came in the form of Dad trying to climb one of the redwoods until a very agitated park ranger rushed out of the Visitor's Center informing him that the redwoods were not to be climbed.

It was wonderful to spend time my Dad and Aunt Carrie; it will be hard to wait until the next visit.  Click here for more photos of our adventures.




Sunday, September 23, 2012

Dandelion Wine

"Dandelion wine. The words were summer on the tongue. The wine was summer caught and stoppered."  -Ray Bradbury

 

We had a wonderful summer.  Windham and I rode the Billy Jones Wildcat Railroad at a nearby park twice.  The second time we brought Mario and also rode the carousel which coincidentally looks like the one from The Sting.  The carousel was beautiful: hand-painted with wooden horses.  The train was authentic, as well.  A steam or diesel engine pulls the miniature train around the park over hills and under trees.

We also participated in our Neighborhood Block Party which featured amazing burgers and hot dogs, live music, a dog parade, and door prizes.  Our street was closed to car traffic for the day and we camped out on the lawn and visited with neighbors.  By the end of the day we were all exhausted and ready for a nap.

Sunday, August 12, 2012

Moss Beach Tide Pools


On Saturday we took a half day trip to the beach.  We spent the morning at Montara State Beach.  Here's an edited excerpt from a yelp review that does it justice:

"You know how you see a movie scene where people are on a secluded beach, and you snort with disgust knowing such a thing doesn't exist? Cuz every time you go to a... beach it's filled with trash, screaming kids, obese dudes in Speedos,... and, if you're lucky, some dead animals?  Yeah. Well bibbity bobbity boo...!!!!!! Montara State Beach has got to be the closest thing I've ever seen to a private beach...

The problem with this... beach is the staircase of death leading down to the beach...  Speaking of death, this might not be a swim beach. Only go swimming here if you've always wondered what it would be like to drown."


Many thanks to Tracey W. of St. Louis for her colorful and accurate description.  Those stairs were harrowing--especially with our stroller, 2 blankets, towel, baby bag, and Mario's camera gear.  Oh, and the baby.  But it was great exercise.  Windham went to town crawling around in the soft, cool sand and ate a ton of it, despite Mario and my best efforts to thwart him.

We hit the Fitzgerald Marine Reserve in Moss Beach, CA around noon for low tide.  The tide pools are a very short walk from the parking lot.  The beach was rocky and pretty crowded, but the tide pools were neat.  We saw some seals at the far end of the beach, too.

Our last stop was Sam's Chowder House for lunch.  Then bumper-to-bumper traffic to get out of town.  The traffic was backed up for miles and at a total stand-still coming into town, so we were glad we came in the morning.  It was the perfect day trip.

For a few more photos Mario took, click here.

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Time Machine Post: Father's Day 2012

I just found these photos on my camera and remembered I took them with the intent to post them to this blog. After all, it was Mario's first bona fide Father's Day.  :)  First, there was breakfast, where I mastered--for the first time--pancakes just like Mario's mom makes them.  They're more like crepecakes.  Very thin yet still light and fluffy.  Also pictured are the huevos estrellados and fresh fruit.

After church, Mario and Windham took a mid-afternoon nap.  That evening, Mario's parents came over for dinner, and afterward Mario staged a mini photo shoot in the backyard.

It was very special to watch Mario photographing Jose Mario and Romilia playing together with Windham on a blanket given to us by Mario's Salvadoran relatives.

Three generations of Mario Ruizes together for Father's Day. 
(These photos were all taken by me. )
Jose Mario has expressed that because he was unable to meet his own first-born son, Mario, until he was 2 years old, being with Windham, his first-born grandson, is all the more special.

Although the day entailed a lot of preparation and work on my part so that everyone else could enjoy themselves, it was important to me to honor Mario as the wonderful husband and father that he is.  Even though we didn't do anything extravagant, I feel like the bar was set high for Father's Day next year.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Lots of Firsts at 7 Months


Windham will be 7 months old tomorrow.  I can't believe how fast time flies!  Here are some firsts he's had lately:
  • Saying "Bah, bah, bah."  This is actually a significant communication milestone.  He also does raspberries and lip trills really well (although he's moved on from the raspberry.)
  • Singing!!!  He sung his first few notes the other day.  It was **SO** cute. 
  • Standing for several seconds without support.  He's been letting go all by himself and is getting better at balancing.
  • Pulling himself up to stand!  This includes in his crib and playpen which we've had to lower.
  • Asking for his bottle.  We're pretty sure he made the sign for "milk" and will definitely keep up the baby sign language.
Although he likes playing on the floor with his toys and crawling around to explore, his favorite thing to do for the past few months has been standing.  His newest trick is crawl over to me, climb up, turn around, walk to dad, turn around, and walk back.  He's really smart, too.  When he drops a toy and can't reach it, you can see him thinking about how to get it for a minute, then he'll try to get it.

Mario has been home for the week (hallelujah for paid vacation!!) so we've had lots of time to both play and relax together as a family.  He's such an incredible dad.  Fun, supportive; helps with everything.  And I mean everything from diapers to baths to feeding.  He does it all.  It's been so wonderful to have him here for these important milestones.